Do what YOU want

March 27, 2019

These are one of the few questions that comes to ones mind whenever he/she is thinking of doing something, or thinking of executing their plans.

What will the society say?

What will he/she think about me?

What will others say?

While we are living in this 21st century, I still don't understand why people care about what the society will say, what others will say, how will they judge me, etc.

All you got to do is concentrate and focus more on your work, on what you want to do.

These jobless people have nothing to do, that's why they just keep on doing their only work of judging people on the basis of what they do.
There are no written records for what to do and what not do. Man has just made up those rules and regulations as per his conveniences.

If we don't like anything then we must stand for what we want. We should be bold enough to face all the odds for it. Mahatma Gandhi once said "Be the change you wish to see in the world". If you don't want to be judged, then be ready not to judge as well.

In social psychology, a stereotype is an over-generalized belief about a particular category of people.

Stereotypes are generalized because one assumes that the stereotype is true for each individual in the world.

These rules and mindset of the society is basically just one person's imagination and belief over certain things in life. These rules were meant to change over a period of time. but it resulted in everyone being so busy and up tracked in life that no one thought of changing them. Instead peoples beliefs began to grew deeper and deeper.

When it comes to taking personal decisions, Don't make the mistake of listening to other people except your parent, peer, and few elderly people in your life. Only these people will be real and truthful with you no matter what.

I wouldn't be surprise if tomorrow morning some random developer will launch his/her software wherein a person will put up some feed and then as soon as you publish it, there will be thousands of jobless people texting you, commenting on your feed and will start judging you which might lead to your disappointment and eventually you will be demotivated.

We are living in the 21st century, lets make the most out of it by not judging others, by not thinking about what others will say, what the society will complain about.

It will be a better place to stay if we mind our own business and stop interfering into other's.

If people are still talking behind your backs, then remember, its their mindset, you should be proud that they spare their valuable time only to gossip or talk about you. You should feel great and thank them.Another thing you can do is start ignoring toxic people in your life, jut as you ignore your annoying and irritating friends on your social media.