Never Judge a Book by its Cover





Well judging others on the basis of what we have heard or seen is very easy because it is the human tendency to come up with any conclusion at that given time or rather spontaneously.
People have the right to do whatever they want to, so why should we get the bad name tag by judging them?

Give a chance to each and every individual to do whatever they want to do unless and until you are getting offended by their action. They have their freedom, let them enjoy it. If you are getting hurt by what they are doing confront them first before coming to any conclusion, because it makes no sense if you have already judged them before confronting and by doing this you are making a big mistake and always remember you will be judged the same way as you are judging others

Even if you come to a point wherein you are about to come to some conclusion, make sure that you put yourself in that same situation and start to analyze why he/she has done that. whatever you have heard from others or seen may not be the real truth every time, because others might not accept the world as you do.




Take a 1 rupee coin and toss it in the air,
as soon as it falls on the ground it will either be heads on top and tails on the bottom & vice versa.
so you must not only see what it appears when you open your eye to see what you want to but also see whats on the other side and then judge if you want to.

  • Main point we should never forget in life is 
each and every individual is different from one another and so is their thinking 


Before judging anyone or anything ask yourself these questions
  1. Who am i to judge ?
  2. On what basis am I judging him/her/it?
  3. Do i know everything?
  4. Will i be judged the same way?
  5. Will i like it if anyone would judge me the same way?

 Earl Nightingale has rightly said:
 When you judge others, you do not define them, you define yourself.

 Do you want others to think of you as someone who judges everybody? 
Ask your friends, peers what they think, and if most of them say that you often judge other people, then it’s time to stop being judgmental.



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